"People come and go like waves of the ocean.....but the true ones stick, like an octupus on your face."
We all have that one friend who is very close to you; to whom we share every thing; with whom we make stupid jokes; with whom we fight but doesn't affects the relation; remains with us even in the difficult times.
Friends make the world beautiful. In my case, I am very lucky to find a wierdo just like me. But when it comes to girls he becomes more shaky than a fish out of water. He feels as if a high AC volt current is flown through his body. On the contrast, I have another close friend who is a girl. He thinks that I am in relationship with her and thus gained an insecurity, that he will be soon ignored by me. But it's hard to convince him that he is my only love. Even if I get into relationship in future, nevertheless, he will be my first priority.
But isn't this mentality wrong. For indians, a girl and a boy together are given tags of either girlfriend and boyfriend or sister and brothers but not friends. Most of the kids are given co-ed education but a typical indian society does not allow them to learn from that. We are still living in a society where people don't want to come out of their orthodox thinking.
We all have that one friend who is very close to you; to whom we share every thing; with whom we make stupid jokes; with whom we fight but doesn't affects the relation; remains with us even in the difficult times.
Friends make the world beautiful. In my case, I am very lucky to find a wierdo just like me. But when it comes to girls he becomes more shaky than a fish out of water. He feels as if a high AC volt current is flown through his body. On the contrast, I have another close friend who is a girl. He thinks that I am in relationship with her and thus gained an insecurity, that he will be soon ignored by me. But it's hard to convince him that he is my only love. Even if I get into relationship in future, nevertheless, he will be my first priority.
But isn't this mentality wrong. For indians, a girl and a boy together are given tags of either girlfriend and boyfriend or sister and brothers but not friends. Most of the kids are given co-ed education but a typical indian society does not allow them to learn from that. We are still living in a society where people don't want to come out of their orthodox thinking.
Even the studies have shown that a group which has equal number of both the sex brings much better results than the groups which have members of same sex. So what's the matter, why people are making shit out of it. Do they want that their children don't talk to any of the half of an ideal population.People who are afraid of talking with girls gives such statements which shows their confidence and attitude. They lack social maturity and hesitate to share their views openly. Such people also make excuse this behaviour by saying "We are not slaves of these whores."
And this is not only for Mens but from the otherside as well. Some females remains in their own girly world. They take talking to mens offensive easily.
In short, god made us in two sexes viz. "Females" and the "Males" but it is important to know that at the end, all of us are humans. Though their is some hesitation in the starting but we should be respectful and interactive to each and everyone.
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